tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970922182075188442.post3203488222635641702..comments2023-03-31T09:56:55.472-04:00Comments on Beauty Will Rise: Shyla's 2ndMattiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10399030135018040344noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970922182075188442.post-9518122241179031172011-09-26T02:12:05.739-04:002011-09-26T02:12:05.739-04:00I just read your story and a few of the posts abou...I just read your story and a few of the posts about your sweet Shyla and Jakin. I want you to know that I've said a prayer for your two babies in Heaven, and for your family here on earth. <br /><br />I'm so sorry for your loss. There is no way to "get over" such a loss. As mothers, I believe we are tied to our children with such a strong bond, that nothing - not even death- can break it. To say for us "to get over" such a loss is impossible. How would we ever get over a piece of us that is missing? Your babies - all of them - are a part of your family no matter where they live, be it here on earth or in Heaven. I lost two little ones at the end of the first trimesters, both near the 11th week, and those sweet babies will always be in my heart and are a part of our family. I will hold them one day, and they will know me. <br /><br />You are a very strong mother and I admire you so much. God bless you :)Katrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04446770591516588794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970922182075188442.post-12547265551953011782011-09-21T12:22:08.856-04:002011-09-21T12:22:08.856-04:00Mattie, I love you! <3
I know what it is like ...Mattie, I love you! <3<br /><br />I know what it is like to feel like they've been forgotten. It sucks. But we both know that we'll never forget them and God never will and that is most important. You had so much going on around Shyla's bday and you did what you could even though in your heart you wanted more. And really would whatever we do ever feel like enough?<br /><br />I think her flowers are beautiful and both her and Jakin's graves are decorated beautifully. I def see the love there.<br /><br />And I do think of both of your babies often and you too! :) and I think to myself I can't wait to see Mattie again.Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15431384515813384025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970922182075188442.post-50581526516995166382011-09-20T12:15:25.105-04:002011-09-20T12:15:25.105-04:00I completely get it and also feel that people expe...I completely get it and also feel that people expect me to be "over it" by now. It's just hard. Your remembrance looks just perfect.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970922182075188442.post-81171391420275343462011-09-20T12:15:22.788-04:002011-09-20T12:15:22.788-04:00I completely get it and also feel that people expe...I completely get it and also feel that people expect me to be "over it" by now. It's just hard. Your remembrance looks just perfect.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970922182075188442.post-90156582208063284092011-09-20T11:53:03.165-04:002011-09-20T11:53:03.165-04:00Many hugs to you..I know how you feel..people act ...Many hugs to you..I know how you feel..people act like you shouldn't be grieving anymore and like we should just be over it...Sure life has gone on, but they are still our children and we will never forget them no matter what..I am just so sorry for all that you have going on right now..Many prayers for you.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15325543217996055549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970922182075188442.post-536225110506934522011-09-20T11:41:55.979-04:002011-09-20T11:41:55.979-04:00Hugs mama! I will never forget shyla or Jakin. I t...Hugs mama! I will never forget shyla or Jakin. I think of you often and how strong of a mama you are. Lots of love !brigettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03762214896655486508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970922182075188442.post-50130948874784665852011-09-20T01:52:25.574-04:002011-09-20T01:52:25.574-04:00Mattie, I know things were busy this year with you...Mattie, I know things were busy this year with your dad's diagnosis and all that was going on. You celebrated her day the best you could, given the situation. I understand the way family & friends may not mention your babies and it is hurtful. We BLMs tend to stick together, and I hope that our love helps somewhat.Sarita Boyettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05114918446765517683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970922182075188442.post-42264635561691772422011-09-19T22:39:49.306-04:002011-09-19T22:39:49.306-04:00Mattie....you have every right to shout from the r...Mattie....you have every right to shout from the rooftops your grief.<br /><br />I am so sorry momma!!!!!!!!Heidi Grohshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00037618884442987553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970922182075188442.post-47034139965984965092011-09-19T19:01:28.882-04:002011-09-19T19:01:28.882-04:00Shyla is never forgotten, please don't think s...Shyla is never forgotten, please don't think she has been. Your family is always in my thoughts and prayers. Things have been a little hectic for me and I don't often post but know you are not forgotten. I am glad you were able to do a little something on her special day but I can also relate to the feeling of people not remembering as much. You are an amazing mommy and do you are doing such a great job. God bless you always ((HUGS)).Lisettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06486760107232191431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970922182075188442.post-53879590284969603892011-09-19T18:01:12.296-04:002011-09-19T18:01:12.296-04:00Mattie, Please know that Shyla is not forgotten. N...Mattie, Please know that Shyla is not forgotten. Neither is Jakin. Nor will they ever be. You are a wonderful mother to all of your babies. Every time you see a dragonfly, you will remember your precious daughter. We love you and your family very much. We are always praying for you.Carolyn Mnoreply@blogger.com