We started attending homeschool co-op 2 weeks ago and so far we are really loving it. Ethan is taking 3 classes and one of them is an Art through Literature class. His first week they were given a worksheet to fill out about what is important to them. Ethan isn't really confident in his spelling abilities, so he asked if he could draw a picture if he couldn't spell what he wanted. The box says, "What is important about me is I'm..." and he drew a picture. At first I didn't notice what it was but at second glance I knew. It is Shyla and Jakin's headstones with their butterflies beside the rocks. He said what was important about him was that he is a big brother...amazing to me that his grief comes out like this sometimes. It is important to him that others know he is a big brother to two other siblings.